Wedding planning means stationary decisions, guest list debates, color choices, music picks, attire searches, and more. Let’s face it, wedding planning can take over your life and it can be really stressful… but it doesn’t have to be!

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Sure, if you let them, the barrage of choices and decisions awaiting your opinion can occupy your every waking moment, but it’s not necessary! Wedding planning should be fun; and it doesn’t need to take over your whole life. All the planning will eventually lead up to a special day, and although important the event is just that — an hour, day, or weekend of celebration honoring the commitment you and your spouse plan to make to one another. The real work begins after the “I Dos” are uttered, and nobody likes the sight of a ragged bride, so keep the stress to a minimum during the planning process! My advice?
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I have to get this out there: Lately I am kind of dreading my own wedding.

From www.adamzyglis.com/magazine6.html
There, I said it. The ugly truth is out there. Do you hate me for it? Am I the only one to ever feel this way? Admitting this feels somehow shameful, like I am letting you all in on a big ugly secret. Any advice or suggestions to get through this wedding planning bump in the road are certainly appreciated.
What’s really doing me in are my anxieties and my expect-the-worst-scenario nature which are really getting the best of me. A summary of my worries:
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Well… It happened. Around 3 weeks and 4 days into my engagement, I lost it! People warned me, people warned Gardenia Dude, but I’m not sure anyone could have prepared us for The Breakdown! Yes, there have been tremors, but last Monday was the big one!!

I’ve heard time and time again that as great as engagement is, its also a very difficult time. Trying to balance everyone’s wants and needs with reality is not easy. For some reason, the pressure of looking for venues, picking a date, and trying to get everyone on board caught up to me last Monday. My dear Gardenia Dude, who just started a fantastic new job, has been impossible to get an answer from. Between proving himself at a new company and nightly MBA classes, he is pretty difficult to track down. Now, don’t get me wrong, I’m not blaming him, but just trying to explain the factors contributing to The Breakdown.
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With only 80 days left til the wedding(!!!), we are about to be bombarded with tons of tiny things to do. All of the details come together in these next few months…but today, I took a break. That’s right. I read my magazines and books that didn’t have to do with weddings!

These are all the of magazines I sat down and read before we got engaged. It felt great to get my mind off planning and dream about crocheting, baking, and DIY projects for our new house to do after the wedding.
Have you taken a break from planning?
PS- Craft has some super cute wedding and party planning ideas…I tried to ignore,but couldn’t.