I was reading what has turned out to be a rather fun blog (despite my initial apprehension): Help Me Pay For My Wedding. Today, BB2B makes a most excellent point: the word ‘tacky’ is so incredibly overused in the wedding industry. As she says: “Just search ‘tacky’ on the wedding bee discussion boards and you’ll discover an endless list of posts by anxious brides-to-be, petrified that their guests will judge them if they opt for a cash bar, balloons, origami flowers, or a potluck reception.”
I would encourage you to read her post. I completely agree that the word tacky is completely overused (even mis-used) in the wedding industry. Wedding guests seem to judge a wedding on how it fullfill’s that person’s own wedding ideals, rather than focusing on the couple that has planned the event. As in – the guest is not thinking “oh wow, a picnic wedding is perfect for Samantha!” but instead might feel that since the guest doesn’t agree with picnic weddings, then the event is deemed tacky.
It seems to generally start with the venue style (where only country clubs, halls and churches are acceptable) and the most unique ideas are generally at the centre of the attack. But make no mistake, even the most high-budget affair is under scrutiny. Heaven forbid you knock out a soup course or offer macaroons instead of wedding cake – people will talk!
 #1 image that comes up when I search 'tacky weddings' - I think it's fun! Case in point: here’s a site devoted to drawing on ‘tacky’ items! Tackyweddings.com
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Buds, here is a little beauty that you may want to consider for your wedding flowers.
 From goodhousekeeping.com If you want the full name, it’s Moluccella laevis, but commonly known as Bells of Ireland or Shell flower. These stems provide interesting greenery in a mixed bouquet, or a sleek modern look when used on it’s own. We are using simple pots with 5-7 stems in each for the cocktail lounge area of the wedding. The reception room will have a more traditional feel as shown with our other flowers. I like the idea of having the cocktail lounge a little more modern and simple-looking.
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Hi Buds, just wanted to share my most recent wedding reception excitement! I am in love with beverage jars!
Dude and I find that at weddings there often aren’t enough appealing non-alcoholic drinks around. We have decided to provide our guests with a fresh farm-style lemonade, served in a beautiful beverage jar. Isn’t this just the best way to have a drink?
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Does everyone know how easy it is to get a great designer to make up a monogram for you? Most are between $4-$10. When you find a designer to do something up for you, you can then use it on your invitations, thank you cards, favour tags, printed napkins, etc etc! Monograms help lend a ‘feel’ to your wedding, and help give a cohesive look to all of your stationary.
Check these out:
 Happy Betty Designs on Etsy
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Hi Gals, thanks to all your help on my recent post about looking for green shoes, I finally have my very own!
So, what do you think of these babies?
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Like many of you, I LOVE the handy services on Weddingwire.com‘s site. I have found the guest list function extremely helpful, and I like that I can also allow some family members to go in and alter addresses, etc.
However, does anyone else find this part of it a bit stressful?:
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Hi Buds,
I need some quick help. I love this design from Martha Stewart:
I’m planning to use this design as a basis for a few paper projects: Menus, place cards, and other wedding stationary. If you like it too, you can download from Martha’s site.
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Finally I’m ready to show off my final invite! To recap, this was a complete DIY project, with the help of a desktop laser printer, and some blank pocketfolds from Cards & Pockets. Back in May, I showed you the outside of the envelope:
 Closed invitation in my wedding colours
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Hi Buds, just came across this little company and just HAD to share it.
Jessica Rust Designs has some gorgeous, modern pieces which are personalized for the receiver!
I find this one just amazing:
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Many people coming to our wedding will look forward to kicking back a few nice drinks with the festivities. To keep it interesting, we want to offer up some drink suggestions to get the party started!
Immediately following the reception (which is outdoors), guests will be served mojitos in highball glasses. We have felt a strong connection with the deliciously refreshing drink since our first trip to Cuba.
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