I’ll be honest, I really did not want a bridal shower.  I’m so not comfortable with being the center of attention.  All that attention on the wedding day itself is more than enough for me.  I told my matron of honor that I did not want a shower, and she has respected my wishes.  However, my cousin very much wanted to throw a shower for family and family-friends. I couldn’t say no.

So Lotus Dude and I drove to Ohio for the shower last weekend.  And you know what?  It wasn’t as bad as I thought it would be.  Yes, there were silly games and a hat made out of bows and ribbons.  But there was also time to catch up with family and old friends that I don’t often get to see.  I think I had been focusing on the wrong aspect of the event.  I kept thinking about potential awkwardness.  Instead, it ended up being a wonderful afternoon which allowed me to get back in touch with people in a less formal environment before the wedding.

So if anyone else out there is a little unsure about celebratory bridal events, keep an open mind   It might turn out a lot better than you expect!